Is there a certain principle one can follow when it comes to choosing friends? How close are you with your friends? Is one more affluent than the other? Does this perhaps have some sort of a significant impact on the relationship? Does it therefore mean you can’t be best friends forever?
Some people are picky when it comes to making friends. You have to have a good financial background in order to ‘roll’ with them. Things like labels, gadgets, etc. are by far the greatest priorities. Like they say, first impressions count the most. What happened to choosing character over money? Does this go back to the saying, “You are the sum of the 5 people you spend most of your time with”? Are we so afraid that associating ourselves with people from a lower class will somewhat degrade us?
I wrote a letter to my own self the other day trying to figure out what brought about the friends that I have. Friendships, from my own point of view, are largely based around how people make you feel. It is those shared laughs, being together through those tough periods when you lost your loved one that matter the most. That sense of care and character they lavish you with. Friends are those people who stand by you when the whole world turns a blind eye. Continue reading